Preacher Wesley Adi has advised dating because he believes the practice is a scam which wastes people's time.
In a Twitter thread, Wesley Adi stated that when a woman is seen as what a man has been searching for, he won't waste time dating her but will move fast towards marriage.
He shared: "Dating is really a scam.
It's either he wants to marry you or not. You ever seen how fast a man acts when they find what they're looking for? Women take a bit longer to decide. If a man is stalling it's either he's not that into you or he's trying to compromise.
The whole "getting to know each other" narrative is also a sham.
You never really get to know anybody enough to commit your life to them. People develop new emotions/triggers/reactions overtime. That's why couples who were together 20+yrs divorce all the time.
Love is a choice.
Stop wasting peoples time!"
Dating is really a scam.
— Wesley Adi || + (@Shepherds_Nest) March 6, 2020
It's either he wants to marry you or not. You ever seen how fast a man acts when they find what they're looking for? Women take a bit longer to decide. If a man is stalling it's either he's not that into you or he's trying to compromise.