Nigerian actor Bolanle Ninalowo has generated a lot of conversation about narcissistic behaviour and emotional abuse in a recent post shared on his Instagram page.
The actor, whose 16-year marriage ended in divorce last year, gave a thorough speech on the origins of emotional abuse and how narcissists take advantage of their victims.
Bolanle Ninalowo talked about how narcissists gradually rob people of their identities through manipulation.
He said that these folks frequently have depressing tales of past abuse and turbulent family dynamics.
He added that narcissists are rarely pleased, even with assistance, and their maladaptive behaviour might persist for several months.
Bolanle Ninalowo opined that no matter how long someone has been stuck in a mindset, healing is possible, giving hope to others in a similar circumstance.
He entreated his followers to share their opinions about emotional abuse.
Read some comments here
iyalashoejire: “I can relate, they are the cause of ur response yet they make people feel u are an alaseju.”
chypeefoods: “Creating a problem and acting a victim in the same problem you created. Quiet and good to people outside and hostile to the spouse.”
eve.2715: “This path is frightful. People who don’t see anything wrong in them but others. Always right . And they can make people pity them and stone you to death.”
raypwol: “I’m happy I was able to leave last year,it was tough but I had to stand on my word.I was always saying sorry even when he’s at fault,he insults me at any given opportunity,lies to me…anytime I complain about his attitude,he threatens to end the relationship,calls me a nag.”
iamkennyharmony: “A narcissist can never be satisfied by anyone.”
patsyudenyi: “Being with a narcissist is more like a rat biting you and still faning you. It’s a form of manipulation. They are passive-aggressive, and the funny part is, they are good to outsiders.”
official_ikechukwu: "Spot on and guess what, I’m healing, I’m getting myself back fully and forgiving myself for not knowing or seeing what my life experiences should have protected me from. Love is nonsense when it ain’t mutual. Finding out is key.”
xtabe: “I understand some of them are not aware of their situation while some are deliberately doing it since they know it’s always a win for them.”
See his post here
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