Nigerian blogger, and public speaker, Japheth Omojuwa has offered relationship tips to guys on how to deal with a love interest they like.
He advised them to give the love interest lots of space even after contacts have been exchanged on his Twitter page.
He specifically warned guys to play the game of patience while making the girl feel she has been forgotten, no matter how strongly they feel for the girl.
He said, "If you meet babe wey you like, don’t be calling her as soon as you get home. O ma fi e pa. Give am time, let her be wondering. And make e no also be like say you no get anything else wey you dey take your head and time dey do. It doesn’t matter if you are jobless here."
If you meet babe wey you like, don’t be calling her as soon as you get home. O ma fi e pa. Give am time, let her be wondering. And make e no also be like say you no get anything else wey you dey take your head and time dey do. It doesn’t matter if you are jobless here.
— JJ. Omojuwa (@Omojuwa) December 18, 2019
Several users reacted to the tweet.
A certain user @_CatheSam said, "Na this kind thing make that guy no call me for 1yr, 9 months, 6 weeks and 5 days now. I gerrit."
Na this kind thing make that guy no call me for 1yr, 9 months, 6 weeks and 5 days now. I gerrit ????.
— Retweet no dey cause fight???? (@_CatheSam) December 18, 2019
However, @waslad_17 disagreed with the advice. He noted that time was of essence. He said, "Bro, this one no get rule o. Call immediately/later, just pray that your presentation get d desire result."
Bro, this one no get rule o. Call immediately/later, just pray that your presentation get d desire result.
— Wasiu Oladipo Raji (@waslad_17) December 19, 2019
While few users were divided on what time was best to call a lady after the first meeting, others decided to go neutral.
No rule book to these things... Do whatever works for you
— Engineer Bolex (@engineerbolex) December 19, 2019